Wearing Shorts and other Mini Motivators

Celebrate the small victories because the big ones are few and far between. I'm on a VERY LONG journey to a healthy weight, if I didn't take time to recognize my small steps of progress I would quit.  Who's making 2017 a journey to fitness year and what are your victories?  These are mine:

Mini-Motivator #1: White Shorts

I’m sitting here comfortably wearing a pair of white shorts that last summer were impossible to zip up and the summer before (when I bought them) were “stuffed sausage” tight. The scale didn’t bring me a broken plateau yet but I know the inches are decreasing.  Everyone said to measure my inches when I began, I didn’t – did NOT want to know how high that tape measure would go.  Kind of wish I did, but I can tell by the way my clothing feels.

Mini-Motivator #2: Five Minute Pause

Today, once again, I found myself gladly making that turn into the gym parking lot, but then just sitting in my vehicle.  I pulled my phone out and took my first look of the day at email and Facebook.  Once I saw a post from the #GoRedGetFit group I clicked on the group and read lots of motivation.  Then I proceeded into the gym wondering if it was wrong that I took a few minutes in the car.  I’ve actually noticed other people in the gym parking lot that seem to do the same.  I concluded that as long as my pause doesn’t last more than 5 minutes, reading motivation helps me continue and it would be an OK habit to continue.

Mini-Motivator #3: Rediscovered Abs

For those reading who haven’t tipped the scales as much as I have, let me inform you that there comes a time when you can no longer “hold in” your stomach.  You make the crunch motion but nothing really changes externally or internally.  And the middle & upper abs?  I’m not sure how long its been since I felt those babies.  In the past few months I noticed while running that I could effectively contract my stomach (lower abs)! That was enlightening for me.  This week I’ve located my middle & upper abs!  I can feel all 3 sections contract as I work them.  It’s thrilling!  Feeling that really motivates me to continue ab work, which luckily I can do every day at the gym!

Today I completed my arms/hips workout + 20 mins on the Elliptical. Between sets I did various ab work on the exercise ball or floor.  Thanks to the other lady in the room doing her routine, she gave me lots of ideas. 

Later I took Otis on a 2 mile walk.  

P.S. yesterday I DID take the walk (it was drizzly but I took these nice photos)  and ended the day with over 18,000 steps!

Back in the Game, Baby! Mini Blog Post ~ 6 June 2017

Hit the gym this morning with nothing but my phone’s access to limitless exercise suggestions.  Queried some balance ball exercises and tried a bunch out. The following 2 images were the most helpful.  Some proved impossible for me, but I tried out about a dozen. 

Then found 2 abdominal resistance machines to do (the basic ab cruncher and the twister one). Finally headed upstairs for 35 mins on the Elliptical crosstrainer.  While at the gym, I had a friend cancel our scheduled 9:30 walk, but I hope to get out there a little later (it’s raining) for at least 2 miles.

Came home and made my standard Quaker quick steel cut oatmeal w/1 diced apple & cinnamon, but forgot my almond slivers so I’ll add them to my salad at lunch.

Below is my standard Monday/Wednesday/Friday routine:

My strength training routine: everything is 20 reps, beginning at 10 lbs. weights (transitioning to 150

·         Biceps

o   Trad. Curls

o   Hammer Curls

o   Wide Curls

·         Triceps

o   Standing Kickbacks

o   DB Close Grip Press

o   Lying Extensions

During my 90 sec. breaks I fill in with Lunges, Yoga Warrior Poses, abdominal crunches on an exercise ball and other stretches.

·         Hips

o   Hip Adductor resistance machine @ 140 lbs.

o   Hip Abductor resistance machine @ 140 lbs.

I run through the entire workout twice and then do the Biceps & Triceps a 3^rd time.

Reward at the end is a CandleStick pose on the foam roller.

Making Friends as an Adult is Yucky

Making new friends as an adult is a yucky and awkward business if you’re not a natural friend-maker.  Some people are, I have a friend who has relocated several times and always seems to find a group of close friends wherever she lands.  But for the rest of us, it can be a daunting process.  I’ve never had even a bit of this friend’s natural friend-making ability (which is very different from just being “friendly”).

• Nursery School – no friends at all, played alone.  Scared my mother one day when the teachers couldn’t find me.  I was hiding in an indoor playscape.
• Elementary School – friend who was a natural friend-maker lived across the street so I rode her coattails through middle school.
• High School – no friends at school; but when I started working in retail and fast food I found camaraderie with the other teens and finally had my own group. And there was one good friend who sought me out because she noticed I loved Adam Ant as much as she did.
• College – friendships mostly based on roommates and their ability to make friends
• Working World – made friends with those in my “training class” and finally did cultivate a few friendships on my own (well, it’s about time!)
• Home with a Newborn – whoa, nothing prepared me for this glut of friends.  I expected a Lucy & Ethel relationship with one of my neighbors but as I pushed the stroller past the homes during the day they were silent. It took me a couple of years to find other homemakers in the neighborhood and then to find someone whose company I really enjoyed was another challenge.

About this time one of my friends from that training class explained that making friends as an adult was kind of like dating.  You start by getting a phone number, then gauge receptiveness to getting together with the kids. Finally you see if you can branch beyond mommyhood to doing something without the kids or even having a phone conversation that isn’t about drop-offs, pick-ups or which kids have a cold.

Currently I’ve discovered several new friendships forming and I’m proud of this because they were ones I actively chose.  With my new interest in healthy living I think I’ve become a better “potential friend.”  Being happier with myself, I’m more willing to approach others and suggest a get-together.  Being someone who is activiely promoting a positive lifestyle makes me more attractive to others as a friend. 

So ladies, as we pursue our #GoRedGetFit goals be assured that our healthy lifestyle reaps many rewards.  We are healthier in body AND in mind; and that healthy mind allows us to spread our internal goodness (love) to those around us.  

Make The Healthy Choice! It's My New Mantra

When I’m at a diner considering a cheeseburger or chicken kebab with Caesar salad: MAKE THE HEALTHY CHOICE! The chicken kebab was in a thin wrap loaded w/fresh lettuce, cucumbers, tomatoes and carrots. The accompanying Greek salad was surprisingly fresh and yummy. And I’m NEVER going to be a woman who can order only a salad for lunch and survive until dinner.

When I pull into a large parking lot on a cold, windy day, do I look for a close space or just park way at the end? I MAKE THE HEALTHY CHOICE and park at the end. Every step is another chance to get my body moving and my heart pumping. I gave up going to drive-thru’s last year and have no complaints. Last week I went into the bank at 8:59am and the friendly teller who unlocked the door told me the drive-thru opens at 8.  I told her my resolution about that.

Since my turn towards a heart healthy lifestyle I distinctly feel the metamorphosis happening. I’m leaving behind a lifetime of too many unhealthy choices and slowly evolving to become a person who clearly cares about their own health. In my late teens I had a workout buddy who, like me, found that our new womanly bodies brought some extra cushioning and decided to implement exercise into our lives. Our problem was we were raised in the 70’s/80’s on Doritos, M&M’s and Soda.  We would exercise, and then reward ourselves with an ice cream Sundae. We would go swimming and then sit around the pool smoking cigarettes.  In college, after a bad bout of mononucleosis, I was in my best shape ever!  I had a pair of Guess jeans with black and white vertical stripes, they were probably a size 9 (a 1985 size 9 which is smaller than today’s 9).  I looked great but also loved to indulge with my friends in “DC & DC” which stood for Diet Coke and David’s Cookies! David’s cookies were the forerunner of Mrs. Fields (at least on my radar, in NYC). They were huge chewy cookies containing not only chocolate chips, but chocolate CHUNKS and lots of them!

As I reflect on my past and how I never really got back into those Guess jeans I wore in college, I realize I’m peeling back layers.  As an adult most weight loss programs I tried (or even talk shows I listened to) wanted me to find out WHY I overate. They insisted there must be some feeling I was drowning with food or an unresolved childhood trauma. I could never come up with anything because that’s not how I became overweight.  I was predestined as my mother’s seventh child I was born with more fat cells than my older siblings because my mother weighed more when she became pregnant with me. But plenty of overweight women have healthy children who remain at a healthy weight through life; it would be futile to place any blame on my birth.  Especially since I have inflicted my youngest similarly.  Thankfully all of my children are healthy weights – I’m smart enough to apply solidly proven healthy eating habits when it comes to my children. For myself I had a lifetime of bad choices and influences. My life continued with food being used for happy occasions and sad ones. I never felt rebuked and readily tried the newest food to appear on store shelves.  Now I know that food companies have been trying to make us eat more by formulating delectable combinations of salt, sugar and fat.  I was right there, literally eating it up.

I’m being kind with myself and slowly reforming. There’s a popular “fake it ‘til you make it” mantra that assists in life changes. I toyed with that mantra but I just couldn’t really own it. So instead I shout in my head: MAKE THE HEALTHY CHOICE! So far, it’s working.  I’m not always perfect but I’m pretty proud of myself for choosing Raisin Bran with milk and banana slices when I visited the hot breakfast buffet at Hampton Inn on Tuesday. Our ride home from Vermont included a stop at Ben & Jerry’s Ice Cream Factory – my loudspeaker in my head malfunctioned.  But, that’s OK!  I had the ice cream, a very light dinner and have moved forward to the next day. 

Statistics: I’ve been staying the same weight this month. I still have lots to lose but I’m OK with a couple weeks of plateau living and refuse to feel negative when I know I’m making healthy choices and am definitely in this for life!

February Already? Time for a Goals/Accomplishments Update

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Having a Fabulous February already, are you? I started my day at the gym where I did 40 minutes on the Elliptical and then some arm & shoulder machines.  On the Elliptical I select the “Variety” or “Weight Loss” workout and change the default time to 35 minutes.  Then I press “Options” and input my weight and age.  The machine adds a 5 minute cool down. After a few machines (the twisty one for my muffin top, one that had “shoulder” in the name and another one) I felt a little light headed so decided it was time to come home for breakfast.

My Favorite Breakfast Staples

Breakfast is either Quick Steel Cut Oatmeal (with 1 diced apple, cinnamon, ginger, nutmeg, 1/8 c. slivered almonds & 1 T Chia seeds) or Eggs & toast (or Protein English Muffin) with 1 T butter.  A few weeks ago I decided the oatmeal breakfast sticks with me longer, but today I went for the eggs & toast since it’s been about a week since I had that and I think the shot of protein in the eggs was needed this a.m.

My dilemma is finding a small snack to eat pre-breakfast on the days I want to go to the gym.  I have tried ½ c. grapefruit slices (in Extra Light syrup, drained) + ¼ c. cottage cheese.  This works, but I still get very hungry while exercising. I’d love suggestions. 

How did I do on those January Goals?

        Goals for January:

•          Two exercise events on the same day  3x/week (Balance Board, Running, Gym)
•          30 mins. HR exercise 6x/week
•          Track food 5 days/week or more
•          Keep calorie count near target of 1850/day
•          Continue to forgive lapses and forge ahead, showing kindness to myself as I would to others.

I accomplished these goals and lost 4 pounds!  Yay!  After a tough time getting on track week 1 and a cold during week 3 I certainly had time to apply my final goal of the month.  I’m somewhat conflicted about the weight loss.  Happy that now that I’m sticking to about 1850 calories/day the weight loss has increased from ½ lb./wk to a full lb./wk.  However it’s still a little discouraging to realize how long it will take me to lose all the weight I want and to hear results of others who seem to drop 10 lbs. their first week on a new program. But I don’t wallow for long.  I’ve never believed in a quick fix or magic pill weight loss method for optimum health.  I know that what I am doing is healthy and allows my body to build muscle while reducing fat.  I know that I can work within my structure and LIVE this way – not just temporarily.  

Here’s a post I put on the #GoRedGetFit group on Facebook.  It had a lot of responses and I want to make sure I keep it handy for reference:

Here's my motivational thought this morning while on the Elliptical at the gym. I'm 51 years old. If I deduct my first 20 years as childhood/growing. I've had 30 great years: career, raising a family, travel, activity (skiing, hiking, adventures), another career. Now I have 30 more years ahead of me: should I be slowing down? NO! Should I weigh this much and just take pleasure in crafts, books & TV? NO! I want to actively make an impact and accomplish just as much in the next 30 years as the past 30! .... This is a high motivation day for me....I hope I can look back on this post when I need it...I hope someone who is low on motivation can feel inspired by this! Let's really LIVE life to the fullest!

Spreading Heart Health Awareness ~ Better Homes & Gardens Article

My 15 minutes of fame have arrived!  There’s a piece about me in the February 2017 edition of Better Homes & Gardens magazine.  I’m sure it will be a small snippet – the only questions are how small? And which picture was chosen, if any?

(Literally as I was typing, my sister called to say she received her February BH&G and I am in it!)

Back in October I was so motivated by the #GoRedGetFit group on Facebook that I changed the focus of my blog (KindCleaning.Blogspot.com) to identify my heart healthy motivation and goals. Read about it here: http://kindcleaning.blogspot.com/2016/10/gored-getfit-why-its-my-new-catchphrase.html.  

A couple of days later someone from the American Heart Association posted on the board about contacting women who were beginning to get healthy and finding out their “why” for a magazine article.  I was one of the first few to respond with a link to my blog.

Pretty quickly I was emailed by the AHA person and then connected with the writer.  We emailed and had a telephone interview.  I had to send her a handful of photos of myself.

Since my interview I’ve continued to spread the news about Heart Disease with daily exercise Facebook updates accompanied with some Heart Facts; I’ve arranged for both schools my children attend to participate in the Wear Red for Women’s Heart Health Day on February 3^rd; and I’ve taken the advice offered by the panel.  The writer has stayed in touch along the way.  Go buy the magazine!

And I'm actually looking forward to visiting my doctors this month.  Not the exam part, but I know they will see a weight loss and hopefully improved blood pressure.  Coincidentally I visit my Primary Care Physician on February 3rd!  So I'll be wearing Red and handing out stickers and flyers to everyone I meet.